How to Teach Your Dog to Stay: Building Patience and Control

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We’ve all been there. You ask your dog to stay, and the next thing you know, they’re up and running toward the door or pulling you into a new room. You might feel like your dog’s attention span is that of a squirrel on espresso! But we’ve all seen those well-behaved dogs lying quietly while their owners make dinner or greet guests. You think, I want that! Well, with patience and a little training, you can make it happen too.


The Skill/Training Command:

“Stay” is one of the most important commands for any dog, and it builds on their ability to remain calm and patient, no matter the situation. It’s especially useful for dogs who get overly excited or distracted. At Dog On a Leash, we believe this command is the key to having a dog who can chill, whether you’re getting ready to leave the house, walking through busy areas, or just need them to settle down. Let’s walk through the process of teaching your dog to stay—and no, that doesn’t mean letting them roam around while you’re trying to do yoga!


Instructions on How to Teach “Stay”:

  1. Start with a Sit or Down: Get your dog in a stable position, like “Sit” or “Down.”
  2. Use a Command: Say the command “Stay” in a calm but firm voice while holding your hand out in front of them (like a stop sign).
  3. Take a Step Back: Slowly take a step back, keeping eye contact with your dog. If they remain in place, praise them and return to give a treat.
  4. Reinforce and Repeat: Gradually increase the distance between you and your dog while reinforcing the “Stay” command. Always return to your dog to reward them—never reward from a distance!

Practice Progressions:

Beginner – Level 1: Stay on Leash

  • What to Do: Start with your dog on a leash in a quiet, distraction-free area. Give the “Stay” command, and take one or two steps back. If they stay, reward with praise and treats.
  • Pro Tip: Keep it short—only a few seconds at first. Slowly build the duration as your dog becomes more comfortable.

Intermediate – Level 2: Stay in a Distracted Setting

  • What to Do: Once your dog understands “Stay,” practice in a more distracting environment. Try areas with other pets, people, or noises.
  • Pro Tip: Gradually increase distractions while keeping your dog on leash. If they break the “Stay,” calmly bring them back to the original spot and start over.

Advanced – Level 3: Stay Off Leash

  • What to Do: In a safe, enclosed area, practice the “Stay” command off-leash. Increase the distance you walk away from your dog.
  • Pro Tip: Only use this in secure areas—off-leash training should be done when you’re confident your dog has a strong understanding of the command.

Advanced – Level 4: Stay Out of Sight

  • What to Do: Take your dog’s training to the next level by walking out of sight. Give the “Stay” command, and leave the room for a few seconds. Return and reward your dog if they’re still in the same position.
  • Pro Tip: Gradually increase the time and distance that you are out of sight. If your dog stays, that’s a major win!

When I first started training Pixie to “Stay,” she acted like the command was a joke. I’d say “Stay,” take a step back, and she’d be halfway across the room before I could say “Good girl!” But after a week of practice, I finally got her to stay—at least until a squirrel ran by the window! Now she holds her “Stay” like a pro, even when I disappear into another room. The power of patience (and some really tasty treats)!


Conclusion:

Mastering “Stay” is about building trust and patience between you and your dog. Whether it’s waiting while you’re at the door, staying put when you need a break, or handling distractions, it’s a crucial command for your dog’s safety and your peace of mind. Ready to teach your dog to stay? Visit Dog On a Leash for more expert tips and share this post with other dog lovers looking to level up their dog’s training! 🐾

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